Tag: sex

  • How the white man still lets me orgasm for free is a mystery honestly.

  • I get so tired of how sex negative society can be, and even how that bleeds into the queer and polyam communities. It’s ok to want sex, and it’s ok for that to be a key way in which you express love.

  • The Porn Crisis That Isn’t A small number of adults—roughly 11 percent of men and 3 percent of women—consider themselves somewhat addicted to porn, even though a number of scientists dispute whether “addiction” is an appropriate label for watching lots of porn. Believing that porn is morally “bad” is strongly correlated with feeling like you…

  • One of my favorite therapists to follow on all of social media is @DrSprankle. I really identified with a lot of this clip. While the religion I grew up in didn’t believe in heaven and hell, armageddon and paradise were the substitutes. I was wrongly labeled a rule breaker, a rebel, or some type of…

  • Why We Feel Shame After We Orgasm Sex isn’t shameful. You aren’t shameful for enjoying it—in whatever form you like having it—with other consenting adults, or on your own. It’s a hard message to learn, but as we shift into a more sex-positive future (hopefully) it can begin to manifest.

  • Death, Sex & Money did a short episode on one night stands for Valentine’s Day. This particular story really stood out to me because it’s one of self-acceptance and joy.

  • Sex-Positivity Means Unlearning Shame For years, I believed that something was wrong with me for being curious about sex for pleasure. I felt wrong for fantasizing about being sexually intimate with someone. I saw sex as something strange and dangerous, not just for the physical risks it posed to the body, but for how quickly…

  • Let this song be the anthem of the 20’s once this god damn pandemic is over.